Louis Who? You don't have to be mad to have LBD but...



My father, Fred Jackson, receives the Imperial Service Order from His Excellency Sir Edward Youde, Governor of Hong Kong

This week is Lewy Body Dementia Awareness Week in the UK and about time too. Very few people have even heard of LBD. As a result, the terminal condition is often misdiagnosed, compounding the already myriad frustrations of sufferers, their families & friends. The slogan of the UK's Lewy Body Society is: "The more people who know, the fewer people who suffer".

If you'd like to learn a bit more about LBD and its consequences, please read on - and thank you for your time.



“Is that Dominick?” The woman was not merely anxious. Something akin to terror in her voice forced me awake. I peered at my watch. It was ten past five in the morning.

“It’s your father. Can you get yourself down here, quick as you like? No, not exactly. We’re in the car park. Off of Friarwood Lane.”

I spotted them immediately: Dad stood shivering, shaking his head vigorously on the pavement outside the hospital, propped up against a low wall. He wore only a grubby pair of regulation hospital issue pyjamas, which stopped a good six inches above his ankles. On his feet, I spied his old leather brogues, perfectly laced up over a pair of paisley socks.

It was clear that the three nurses in attendance were having no luck persuading him to return to the ward. Personally, I didn’t blame him. The very thought of a talking fire engine under the bed would have sent me scarpering down the fire escape and out, into the relative safety of the car park, too. He did, though, make sure he was properly shod. Well, as he later explained to me earnestly, he wasn’t going to get far, wearing just his slippers.

That was in September 2006. It was the first time that Dad experienced one of the vivid hallucinations which are the hallmark of Lewy Body Dementia, although it would be several months before he received this diagnosis. In a way, he was lucky. Some LBD victims never receive the correct diagnosis or, if they do, it is late in the day when anti-psychotic drugs routinely used for other forms of dementia may already have been prescribed; these can lead to serious side effects and, in some cases, death.

LBD – sometimes called DLB - is a form of dementia which shares symptons with both Parkinson’s and Alzheimer’s Diseases. It is named after Alois Alzheimer’s colleague, Frederick Lewy (1885-1950) who, in 1912, identified the eponymous ‘bodies’ or abnormal protein deposits in the brain which disrupt normal function. LBD was virtually unknown until around a decade ago, when scientists in the United Kingdom, Japan and the U.S. collaborated on the pioneering research which finally established LBD as a distinct condition.

A major problem with diagnosis is that every sufferer is different and manifests different degrees of the characteristic symptoms. Some show no signs of certain features, especially in the early stages. Symptoms may fluctuate as much as moment-to-moment, hour-to-hour or day-to-day.

The main characteristics include general mental decline and lowered attention span. Dad’s diagnosis was ultimately confirmed by vivid hallucinations just like the one described above. He would often return to his navy days, quite literally reliving his D-Day experiences on Juno Beach as he unloaded the tanks of the 3rd Canadian Infantry. He was frequently adamant he was back in Hong Kong, where he served as a distinguished officer in the territory’s Fire Brigade for more than 30 years.

Most days, he was visited by my late brother who apparently sat chatting, at the end of his bed. I was relieved to hear that Rory, who died after a long illness in 1995, was back in rude health and as irreverent and infectiously hilarious as ever.

Possibly the strangest phenomenon was the imaginary cup of tea he often sat nursing all day, complete with extended pinkie finger. Now, if he had said that it was a glass of Bacardi & Coke that only he could see, perhaps more of us would have believed him...

I jest, but smiles are few and far between with LBD. My father was also intermittently, but severely, depressed for the first time in eight decades, during which he had had to bury both his wife and his son. He also began to suffer terribly from distressing fluctuations in autonomic processes, such as blood pressure, bowel and bladder function and body temperature.

Mini-strokes made him fall face-first through the front door of the bungalow, onto the concrete drive. Sheer shame prevented him from asking unfamiliar nursing staff for help, when his bowels failed more than once in the care homes where my stepmother would frequently send him for respite. Unsteady on his feet, he fell again and broke his arm late one night, when she had shoved him, just a tad too hard, in exhausted frustration.

According to the Alzheimer’s Research Trust, 820,000 people in the UK are currently living with dementia with LBD thought to account for up to five per cent of this total. Yet LBD remains perversely little known and still barely understood.

Despite his 2007 diagnosis, Wakefield Family Services who had regular and frequent responsibility for my father during the last three years of his life continue to insist that my father was 100 per cent compos mentis and remained entirely lucid until the day he died in December 2008. This is a central tenet of the WFS report into their dealings with my father. My fight to get Wakefield to correct this report's many material errors of fact and to expunge the serial and serious libellous and defamatory references contained therein continues. Watch this space.

This stubborn insistence is based, I presume, on the fact that Dad, a man who, in his middle age, taught himself to read, write and speak Chinese, despite a truncated formal education, routinely scored 18 out of 20 in the regular mini mental tests for which he assiduously prepared. You know the type of thing. "What's your address, Fred? Do you know the name of the Prime Minister? Can you remember your date of birth? Who's a clever boy then!"

Strangely, Clare, his favourite mental health nurse, never actually visited Dad at the same time as my dead brother did. Funny that, when you come to think of it.

The Lewy Body Society has a Facebook page here. In the United States, the LBDA does a similar, sterling job of raising awareness.

He ain't Heavy.... Happy Birthday RPJ!



Rory Patrick Jackson
Hong Kong 26 September 1964- London 16th May 1994


Honestly, I could have killed him. My brother, that is. How many times over the years did I have cause (and a just one at that) to utter the self-same threat? If you knew my brother (and I suspect many of you reading this will remember him well), you would seriously sympathise...& with me, of course…

This time, it was different. I really could have killed him and I very nearly did. For a start, it would have been so easy and besides, I had been up all night and frankly, I had had enough. My rib cage was cranking in on the squishy bits inside, my pelvis was no longer connected and the mother of all hangovers was starting to pulse in the base of my skull. But that, as they say, is quite another story, (although it is one I will try and come back to a little bit later).

“Do you have any siblings?” It’s a reasonable enough question; tends to come in the top ten at a dinner party, somewhere below “What do you do?” but usually ahead of “New Labour or Old Tory?”.

Well, funnily enough, I do. I have a brother. Just because he is a dead brother doesn’t mean he is not my brother any more. He’s not my ex-brother, or even my former brother. The evidence is there: in a thousand childhood photos, in that unmistakeably identical nose. I have a brother and just because he’s a dead brother doesn’t mean that today is somehow no longer his birthday.

Just because Rory has shuffled off this mortal coil, it doesn’t mean I won’t be raising a Bacardi Coke or two to him. Obviously it is a pity he’s not here to pay for a few rounds of birthday drinks. But then again, when did Rory ever pay? For his own drinks, let alone anyone else’s!

I can’t pretend it’s not often awkward: having a dead brother, that is. There’s simply no word for the sibling-less. Rory’s death did not make me an orphan or a widow – although, perhaps quite carelessly – I am now both the latter and the former.

“I’m so sorry to hear that,” is the usual polite, if embarrassed, response, “What was he like, your brother?” I’m aware I tend to respond with the wriest of smiles. You mates of his will understand my predicament. How to describe Rory? I usually resort to a now oft-repeated, slightly trite formula.





“Well, if you can imagine Robbie Williams crossed with Graham Norton, then you might get a teeny tiny idea of what my brother was like?” Charming, vulnerable, handsome, talented, creative, funny, camp, bitchy, outrageous, needy, irresistible – need I go on? But I digress. One of my main incentives for writing this post was the number of Rory’s friends to whom I owe an overdue and protracted e-mail.





IMHO, you gotta love the worldwide intrawebs and social media - which I passionately do. I am now, extremely gratefully, in touch with scores of old friends, including childhood playmates from Hong Kong, many of whom were trying to get back in touch with Rory & only found me: the scary, bespectacled big sister, back from boarding school. Where is he? Can I have his e-mail? What happened? How? When?

You’ll forgive me if I keep to the bare bones? In my (sadly too broad) experience, the brain really tends to box up & seal the stuff which is just too painful to dredge up on a regular basis…. Rory came back to the UK from Hong Kong in about 1982, having achieved no academic success but having scored widespread and popular notoriety at King George V School. My fault again, I guess, why bother to clock up any exam results when your boring big sis already had more than sufficient for one family?

He made a desultory attempt to take a few more exams but then finally found his métier in hairdressing (stands to reason: creative, adventurous, gift of the gab et al..) For a while, the future looked bright & Rory, being Rory, was having a huge amount of fun – (tbh? I was never quite sure about the hair salon/pet shop combo idea – particularly as I was supposed to be the main investor…)

In the late 1980s, Rory was diagnosed with something called HTLV-III – the first official designation for what we now know as HIV-Aids. At that time – though it is difficult to cast our minds back quite so far to such a dark age – it was thought they had only a few months to live. Rory, and his partner Patrick, decided that they would enjoy whatever time they had left and whoever succumbed first would be cared for by the one who – hopefully – remained healthy.

And that is exactly what happened – although Rory managed to stay perfectly well for far, far longer than any of us had originally expected. At my 1992 wedding, he was frail but handsome as ever in his morning suit, full of acerbic observation, graciously holding court.

By 1994, he seemed bored. His increasing frailty meant he was increasingly housebound: he and I had to give up our weekly cinema trips, our rendezvous in hidden-away pubs. He seemed, more than ever, to be awaiting a reunion with our mother, who had reluctantly left us, a combative victim of breast cancer, in 1975.

I could go on. If you’d like to read my 1996 memoir of Mum & Rory (“I went as a Zebra – and won 1st prize”) I am planning to transcribe it to the web in a form which will be available to download in the next couple of weeks. If you have questions I haven’t answered above, please don’t hesitate to contact me directly via this e-mail address - dominiquej@atlas.co.uk.

In the meantime, if you are able, please raise a glass – Bacardi Coke or similar would be most fitting – to Rory Patrick Jackson – 26/09/64-16/05/94). Thanks, as ever, for reading.

If Dementia Care were a Country.....Guess how Big it would Be? (& then Guess again...)



Uncle Fred & Uncle Ted in 2006 (a few months before Dad's Dementia with Lewy Bodies was correctly diagnosed)

Today is World Alzheimer's Day. Or did you forget? Boom Boom!!

Personally, I tend to be against singling out one day of 365 to remind us of any particular cause. I am rather more for a constant, even if low level, general awareness of the problem in focus.

However, in our 24/7 global, increasingly trivialised, news cycle, perhaps these annual events do serve some sort of purpose? I wasn't even aware it was World Alzheimer's Day, until I woke up this morning to the gently hectoring tones of the Today Programme on BBC Radio 4, discussing a new report on the global costs of dementia care. The statistics were so scary, I immediately marshalled my attention.

According to the report, commissioned by Alzheimer's Disease International (ADI), the worldwide costs of dementia will reach US$604 billion in 2010, which represents more than one per cent of global GDP. If the latter figure means nothing to you, look at it this way: if dementia care were a country, it would be the 18th largest world economy, ranking between Turkey and Indonesia. If dementia care were a company, it would be the largest, by revenue, in the world; bigger than Wal-Mart, bigger than Exxon-Mobil.

As populations continue to age, ADI also predicts that dementia cases will almost double every 20 years - to around 66 million in 2030 and 115 million in 2050 - with much of the rise in poorer nations. Low-income nations currently account for under one per cent of total worldwide costs, the report said, but have 14 per cent of the cases of dementia, while middle-income nations account for 10 per cent of the costs and 40 per cent of the prevalence.

Scary stuff, isn't it? Ageing populations and soaring rates of dementia have huge economic and social implications and the sheer scale of the problem means that most of us will be affected - in one way or another.

Sadly, rising rates of dementia also mean rising rates of vulnerable adult abuse. It is already relatively easy to take advantage of a frail and vulnerable old person.

It is exponentially easier to take advantage of one who may not be entirely in the here and now. This is exactly what happened so frequently with my father, whose LBD hallucinations took him back to Hong Kong, to his Navy days and D-Day in particular and also to happier times, when my brother Rory was alive, on a regular basis.



Dad & Rory in London's Fleet Street (both very much alive...)

I was all set to write an article for a national newspaper to mark Elder Abuse Awareness Day last June. Sadly, and mainly for legal reasons, it was not published. Once these legal restrictions have been resolved, I sincerely hope I am able to finally tell my father's story - as it deserves to be told. Until then, please keep reading.

Text Us All Your £$@#-ing Money! New Media make Donating a Doddle. So Why is it still so Hard to DO good?



Is it really nearly 25 years since Mr Robert Frederick Zenon Geldof urged; “Just give us your £$@#*&-ing money!” from the Live Aid stage? At the risk of revealing my age, I will admit I went straight down to the post office on the following Monday, filled out the requisite form and donated the few shillings I could then afford.

Since then – and thank goodness – giving to charity has become exponentially easier. Thanks to the marvels of the worldwide intrawebs and social media in particular, we can now set up our very own fundraising pages to cajole our mates into coughing up. Today’s telethons only have to flash up a text number and a few dreary T&Cs and you can salve your conscience with a simple SMS. Yet, if only it were quite so simple to give something other than money?

Don’t misunderstand me. I’m all for donating hard cash, especially if time is in short supply. It is now easier than ever thanks to sites like Justgiving.com, “Fundraising made easy!” (Other fundraising sites are available). Only this week, I’ve been able to divest myself of a few tenners with a few simple clicks. Once for a very old friend – amazing feat at your age, Niall – and once for a relatively new one – great job, Jude! Both ran marathons, Paris and Brighton respectively, both for excellent causes that I just don’t have the time or the funds to support regularly. (I do, however, have slightly less sympathy for people on extended exotic jaunts who need “a minimum £5K to cover my expedition costs…")

I’ve seen the power of JG and social media in action myself, when my own last attempt at raising a few charity squids featured on their blog. I soon exceeded my original £500 target and ended up raising nearly £3K for the Royal Marsden where my brother-in-law was successfully treated for cancer.

The magic of mobile, in the form of text-to-give, now plays an increasingly vital role, particularly for one-off campaigns & disaster appeals. Millions of dollars were texted to the U.S. Red Cross within 48 hours of January's Haiti earthquake. Last month’s UK Sport Relief saw more than 10 per cent of its total £31.6m come via text.

So far, so great for charities. But what if you’re still feeling slightly credit-crunched or your pockets simply aren’t that deep? Between charming chuggers and old mates running for heartbreaking causes, we all have a lot of call on our spare cash these days. What if you would just like to DO something good for a change? Change the world with a random act of kindness? Be a good neighbour? A mentor? One of Dave’s shiny new citizens? In the last 13 years, it has become practically impossible.

I’ve already written on this forum about the tragic case of Derrick and Jean Randall, found dead in their bungalow before Christmas. Neighbours had tried to alert the relevant authorities, only to be told it was “none of their business”. I was told the same thing several times during the last months of my father’s life; Social Services refused to tell me where he had been sent for respite – I was not next-of-kin, thus, the whereabouts of my frail, confused, often incontinent father was “none of my business”.

The same Social Services department asked last year if I would cooperate with an investigation into their dealings with my father. I readily agreed, hoping the exercise might help raise awareness of the vulnerable adult abuse to which he was subjected. Sadly, their eventual report contained several material errors of fact and scores of libellous references to myself, my uncle and the distinguished solicitor who tried her best to help my father while he was still alive.

Despite repeated requests, the local authority in question refuses to correct even the factual errors while their chief executive (annual salary c.£200K) refuses to meet with me. I’m now saving for formal libel action – to correct a report with which I fully cooperated! There is obviously more I'd like to write about the above. However, as much is still sub judice, I am advised that this blog itself (sole aim: to raise awareness of elder abuse and of Lewy Body Dementia) could be jeopardised if I do. As we say in 140 chars: *sighs*

In other news, the mentoring/careers advice network I have been trying to set up with some old college friends has also been held up – not exactly by the now ubiquitious CRB checks for anyone suggesting direct contact with young people but, sadly, by the machinations of good old office politics at the old college itself. Is it any wonder that I am reduced to the far simpler gesture of doling out dosh?

I am far from the only one frustrated. One of the great "Endeavours" slots at LikeMinds in Exeter in February was by Malcolm Scovill, who was so frustrated at how difficult it was to volunteer, he ended up founding LeapAnywhere. Read his inspiring story here. Another NFP approaching volunteering in a practical and constructive way is Timebank.

I am also really heartened that so many of my friends, particularly the younger ones, have taken the Facebook Page campaign so much to heart? Even it is for Feel Your Boobies or should that be especially if it is for campaigns like Feel Your Boobies?! Raising awareness is the first step for any campaign, any cause and that is why I remain determined to keep this blog going and to widen the scope, just as soon as I get the green light....

Very best of luck to all the mad London Marathon lot btw!

Tangerines at No 10? Why do Bullies Bully and How One Office Bully ended my Fleet Street Career



The saga of bullying in Downing Street rumbles on and becomes increasingly complex and arcane, as tends to happen, when the salacious details contained in the original allegations dry up. Mrs Brown tells us how “strong” her husband is. The Chancellor of the Exchequer refers coyly to “robust exchanges”.

Nevertheless, the story itself has the uncomfortable ring of truth about it. Andrew Rawnsley is one of the most respected political commentators of his generation, far too canny – at this juncture of his career - to go into print without being confident that his sources are indeed: “24-carat”.

The story is also extremely plausible: almost all of us has first-hand experience of bullying, whether it was just the lunky guy on the school bus, hassling for your dinner money, or the frustrated colleague, using abuse and coercion because he has rage management issues and has run out of civilised options with which to get his own way.

Trade unions have been quick to exploit the story: according to Unison, more than 30 per cent of workers say they have been bullied in the workplace in the last six months – at huge cost to the economy. Job insecurity, increased workloads and cost cutting due to the current recession are likely to see office bullying on the rise.

Savvy companies now realise it is in their interest to take a firm stance on bullying. Allegations which go to tribunal (200,000 last year, up one third since 2006) can be costly while the concomitant effects on workplace morale and productivity are equally damaging.

I was the victim of an office bully in the mid-1990s, sadly long before the problem was openly acknowledged, let alone tackled sensibly. A new boss, a recovering alcoholic recently returned from an overseas posting, decided he needed to appropriate the tiny enclave of foreign news coverage I was editing at the time.

He was a regular Jekyll and Hyde; one day it would be: “Remind me exactly how much we pay you and what it is you actually do to earn that amount?” The next would be: “Your husband is in Sussex and my wife is in Oxfordshire, so why won’t you come for a drink with me?” This was not, however, sexual harassment. It was naked, unnecessary aggression. I still have no idea what I might have done to attract quite so much cruel opprobrium from one individual. His reaction when I returned to work after the death of my younger brother, Rory, does not bear repetition.

Sadly, I was also caught in the interregnum between two editors, neither of whom seemed particularly willing to involve themselves in my plight. It was not until the NUJ became involved that they woke up. I eventually – and reluctantly – left with a cheque for a year’s money, on the understanding that I did not discuss the exact circumstances of my departure. The bully himself is still at the newspaper, writing a regular column, no less.

The Downing Street saga has prompted a rash of thumb-sucking columns about bullies and bullying. Why do they do it? Feelings of inadequacy on the part of the bully appear to figure highly.

Bullying is also a key element of elder abuse. As older people become more physically frail, they are no longer able to stand up to bullying or defend themselves if physically assaulted. They may also be mentally and emotionally frail, making them literally defenceless against bullying in the many forms it can take. It may not be an excuse but I can now see that one of my father’s key abusers resorted to bullying due to frustration, exhaustion and inability to cope with an infirm, incontinent and not always fully lucid 13-stone man. However, not all of the individuals who conspired to make my father's final months so tortuous had anything like such an excuse.

Haïti Thoughts #1 – Firemen don’t just fight Fires



This image copyright BBC News

The sheer scale of the loss of life and devastation in Haïti is far beyond the comprehension of most horrified First World viewers. We sit comfortably among soft furnishings on sofas, in warm, solid and impermeable houses, watching the crisis unfold on our over-sized television screens. Haïti has certainly kicked early January’s grumblings about the UK snow into rather sharper perspective.

The bereavement and misery beaming across the Atlantic is so shocking that, unsurprisingly, news organisations on the ground are constantly on the look out for stories with some sort of happy ending – no matter how qualified that happiness might be.

I cannot believe I was the only viewer weeping, when a team of UK firefighters located and rescued two-year old Mia, who had been trapped under the ruins of her nursery in Port-au-Prince for more than 72 hours. Mia was reportedly initially located by Echo, an Urban Search and Rescue dog with the team of volunteers from Greater Manchester Fire and Rescue who flew out to Haïti last week.

More than 60 firefighters, from services in Manchester, Lancashire, West Sussex, Kent, the West Midlands, Lincolnshire, Hampshire and mid and west Wales, have been helping out in Haïti. Many of them were deployed by Rapid UK, a UK-based NGO, specialising in the relief of human suffering and distress in the aftermath of disasters, anywhere in the world.

Watching the British firefighters working tirelessly in Haïti reminded me of just how versatile these men have to be. Firemen do not just fight fires; far from it. These men and women are the members of the original emergency service, dedicated to protecting life, property and the environment – whether they are assisting at a fire, a car crash, or as in this case, a natural disaster. They are also invariably the first on the scene at unnatural disasters: 343 members of the New York Fire Department perished in the ruins of the Twin Towers on 9/11.

When my father, Fred Jackson, joined the Fire Brigade in Doncaster in 1947, his initial weekly salary was £4-10/- (four pounds & ten shillings - £4.50, in today’s money; about US$7.25). Fortunately, salaries have moved on somewhat since then, as have the technology, the engineering and associated fire appliances. This progress has helped to reduce disaster mortality rates, if only in developed countries.

Growing up in Hong Kong, my brother, Rory, and I were acutely aware that my father had a very important job, something that had to do with saving lives. He always had to remain in 24-hour radio or telephone contact with HQ; his weekends were often truncated and our free time with him was always overshadowed by the baleful presence of “Control”.

On a brief family break on the offshore island of Lantau in the early 1970s, Dad was spirited away one morning before breakfast. He did not return until early evening, covered in blood, soot and oil. He was also very quiet – a familiar sign that he had been at a fire or incident with fatalities. Next day, Mum told us that a minibus had crashed into a ravine. Dad had supervised the rescue operation and had personally freed half a dozen of the 23 survivors; 17 other passengers died.

Dad was also in charge in June 1972, when a steep hillside on Hong Kong Island collapsed, following days of unprecedented heavy rains, sweeping away a 13-storey apartment block on Kotewall Road. The incident itself was vividly, and terrifyingly, fictionalised by Rhodesian-born writer John Gordon-Davis in his 1978 novel Typhoon. In real life, 67 people perished. The half a dozen survivors whom my father was responsible for digging out remained in contact with him until his death in 2008.

That firefighters who already have such dangerous day jobs should volunteer to help out at disasters such as the crisis currently playing out in Haïti is extraordinarily humbling. We have all heard about Médecins sans Frontières; yet who knew that MSF had a sister organisation? Firemen without Borders.



This image copyright Greater Manchester Fire & Rescue Service

Rapid UK may be best known for search and rescue in the aftermath of sudden onset disasters, yet two-thirds of their efforts go into overseas training. They return to countries where they have previously deployed in an emergency, to provide training to expand capacity and thus mitigate the effects of future disasters. They also help to facilitate the donation of redundant UK emergency vehicles, such as ambulances and fire engines, to countries in need.

Rapid UK is entirely funded by donations and does not receive any funds from the UK Government, from the Disasters Emergency Committee or any other generic fund raising organisations or charities. Click here to find out more about their work.

Echo, and his furry friend back in Manchester, fire investigations dog Cracker, also have their own blog here - although it has been said that Crew Commander Mike Dewar helps them out from time to time.

“They told us it was none of our business…” – How Data Protection may have done for Derrick & Jean Randall



Dad, determined to be "useful" - on one of his last visits to Bedlam

The unimaginably sad end of elderly couple, Derrick and Jean Randall, found dead in their Northamptonshire bungalow last week, has triggered a predictable round of: “What is society coming to?” headlines, with an equally noisy backdrop of slamming stable doors and suitably sorrowful sound bites from the relevant authorities.

There is never anything pleasant or easy about the end of anybody’s life, no matter how old, how frail or how ill. Yet even my dear old Dad spent his last three weeks, in a comfortable room, in a slightly scruffy but clean and bright care home, being ministered to by a team of kindly nurses and palliative carers whose professionalism and dedication to their delicate tasks we never doubted for a second. The briefest trip to the dismal parallel universe of geriatric care would convince the hardest cynic that “society” is still alive and very much kicking – and caring.

There are clearly several complex issues surrounding the Randalls’ case but I agree with their MP, Sally Keeble, who raised the tragedy in the Commons earlier this week: “People say: 'Oh, they were reclusive', but I don't really accept that argument”.

What chilled me most about the reports of the Randalls’ death were the interviews with many of the couple’s neighbours, who insisted they had tried to contact both local social services and relevant charities:

“When I said, no, I wasn’t related to the Randalls, they said that it was none of our business. There was nothing they – or we – could do...”


The reason one concerned neighbour, Heather Footitt, and others were unable to get the relevant authorities to take their concerns about the Randalls seriously, or to act on them, is down to the now extremely stringent rules and regulations surrounding data protection in this country.

In this era of cyber-bullying, financial hackery and identity theft, it certainly makes sense to have some sort of data protection in force. Yet the act itself has now become highly complex and social workers and other local authority employees are now in terror of breaching its increasingly convoluted proscriptions. Consequently, there is now no scope whatsoever for the latter individuals to apply a reasonable dose of logic and common sense to individual cases. Surely Mrs Footitt did not have to be next-of-kin to have her very real concerns about the Randalls’ welfare taken seriously? It appears that she did.

I speak from experience. As many of you know, I am unable to go into detail about events during my father’s final months, many of which remain sub judice. So I won’t, for now, be identifying the local authority whose Family Services Department refused, on scores of occasions, to tell me anything at all about the welfare, well-being and often the physical location of my own father, even as his dementia progressed.

Late one Sunday night at the end of July 2008, my mobile went. I saw it was my father, calling from the cell phone we had given him, and answered immediately.

“They are sending me away again, Doh. I don’t know where to. I don’t know when. Tonight or tomorrow. I don’t know when I am coming home. Or if I am coming home. Will you come and get me? Please?”